Depersonalization vs Derealization
Depersonalization
negative feelingYour hands look like hands. Not yours: hands, the general item, attached to an arm that responds when you ask it to and still reads as somebody else's equipment. Your voice leaves your mouth and arrives a fraction late, correctly accented, produced by someone you are only listening to. The face in the mirror is arranged the right way and belongs to nobody in particular. Depersonalization is that gap: the whole machinery of being you keeps running smoothly while the sense that you are the one inside it drops out.
Derealization
negative feelingThe kitchen is your kitchen. The light is the same light, the chairs are where you left them, and yet the whole scene has the quality of a set built to look like your kitchen. Nothing has moved and nothing looks damaged, but the realness has been turned down, as though the world is being shown to you through glass or rendered slightly too smoothly. You can describe everything in the room correctly and still not believe it is actually there. Derealization is the word for that gap between accurate seeing and the sense that what you see is real.
Key Differences
| Aspect | Depersonalization | Derealization |
|---|---|---|
| Sentiment | negative | negative |
| Type | feeling | feeling |
| Nature | There is a case that it buys distance in a moment that would otherwise be unsurvivable, and people who have been through... | There is little constructive in the state itself. Whatever it once did as a way of stepping back from something unbearab... |
Depersonalization's Perspective
Derealization is the pair it gets mixed up with, and the line is simple even if you cannot draw it in the moment: derealization is the world going false, painted or two dimensional, while depersonalization is you going false. Numbness is the other confusion. Numbness is feeling nothing much while remaining clearly the person feeling it; here the feelings may still be technically present and it is the owner who has gone missing.
Derealization's Perspective
It is easily confused with confusion, but confusion means you have lost the thread of what is happening, while here you follow everything perfectly and simply cannot feel that it is real. It also gets mixed up with feeling emotionally distant from people, which is about warmth and reach; derealization is about the world itself losing its texture, including objects, walls and light, none of which have anything to do with intimacy.
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Depersonalization
negativeYour hands look like hands. Not yours: hands, the general item, attached to an arm that responds when you ask it to and still reads as somebody else's equipment. Your voice leaves your mouth and arrives a fraction late, correctly accented, produced by someone you are only listening to. The face in the mirror is arranged the right way and belongs to nobody in particular. Depersonalization is that gap: the whole machinery of being you keeps running smoothly while the sense that you are the one inside it drops out.
Derealization
negativeThe kitchen is your kitchen. The light is the same light, the chairs are where you left them, and yet the whole scene has the quality of a set built to look like your kitchen. Nothing has moved and nothing looks damaged, but the realness has been turned down, as though the world is being shown to you through glass or rendered slightly too smoothly. You can describe everything in the room correctly and still not believe it is actually there. Derealization is the word for that gap between accurate seeing and the sense that what you see is real.